«When one's words are a series of accusations, then that has not to do with the higher self-even when the person expresses that wants to "help". Only the higher self can support with wisdom and guidance, as similarly only a higher energy can change a lower energy.
The crowd that likes the negative ambient of such interactions, is a sign that they themselves are also not ready to change.. they are also not connected to their higher-subtler self. They seek the lower energies to feel secure in their darkness..
The higher self nourishes with love and only love.. and you can feel this from the quality of the energy that comes and uplifts you from the depths of your habitual self. You can feel that subtle difference from the vibration of the words that surround with love and not with accusations. The words stem from the reserve of the heart.
Discard what is not aligned to your soul.. proceed to the union with your higher self ~» — Grigoris Deoudis